In Loving Memory of Darlene Scalf: A Life of Kindness, Love, and Legacy
On July 13, 2025, Oakland, CA, lost one of its most beloved residents, Darlene Scalf. At 76 years old, Darlene tragically passed away after being struck while walking in a marked crosswalk. Her sudden passing has sent ripples of sorrow through the hearts of her family, friends, and the wider Oakland community.
Darlene was more than just a name — she was a gentle soul known for her unwavering kindness, deep compassion, and the quiet strength that she carried through life. Born and raised in California, she spent decades as a dedicated teacher, shaping young minds not only with knowledge but also with patience, empathy, and a sincere belief in the potential of every child she met. Her former students often described her as “the teacher who never gave up on anyone,” a title she wore with humility and pride.
Outside the classroom, Darlene was a devoted grandmother, mother, and friend. Her family was the center of her world, and she poured love into every moment shared — from holiday dinners to quiet storytimes with her grandchildren. She found joy in the little things: morning walks through the neighborhood, tending to her flower garden, and spontaneous weekend hikes in California’s scenic landscapes. Nature was her sanctuary, and she often said the outdoors brought her peace and perspective.
Those who knew Darlene personally remember her as someone who was always there to lend a listening ear or offer a warm smile during hard times. She was the neighbor who checked in on others, the volunteer who showed up without fail, and the friend who remembered every birthday. Her presence radiated a sense of calm and safety — the kind that leaves a lasting imprint.
The tragic circumstances of her passing have made this loss all the more painful. What should have been an ordinary day turned into a devastating tragedy that has left her loved ones in shock and grief. As the family navigates this incredibly difficult time, they are reaching out to the community for support.